Bestfriends… such an overused term. But more often than not, nagagamit o napapagkamalan sa maling paraan. Teka, bago ka magwala dyan at kumontra, please give me ample chance to explain and elaborate. Hinde porket sumabay kayong lumaki mula pagkabata e mag bestfriends na kayo, hinde porket magkatabi kayo sa classroom buong semester ay mag-bestfriends na kayo, hinde porket parehas kayo ng hilig e mag-bestfriends na kayo, hinde porket parehas kayo ng kaaway e mag-bestfriends na kayo etcetera etcetera… Maraming factors, yup and alam kong alam nyo na lahat ng sinasabi ko. I sure hope so. Pero hinde yan ang main concern ko (belat), because I believe and fully convinced sa aking paniniwala na: “THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS BESTFRIENDS BETWEEN OPPOSITE GENDER”. Kung magkaibigan kayo ng same-sex friend mo, you can upgrade to be bestfriends, pero hanggang dun lang, BUT! DATAPWAT! SUBALIT!, if mag bestfriend na kayo ng opposite gender, there will always be one step higher, pede pa kayong maging lovers. And that’s where the conflict begins!!! Of course, I’m speaking in general, kung meron man dyang minute chance na magbestfriends na boy and girl, well good for you, sobrang bihira yan tsong!, pero sana after reading this blog e you remain the same. Here are my theories:
• One time or another, one will fall for the other, the sad part is when the love is not reciprocated… Then you’re in trouble. Wala ng mas nakakailang na feeling kesa sa mag-bestfriends na nagka inlaban. The friendship is doomed right there and then.
• Mahirap magkasyota kung may nakabuntot sayong bestfriend (kuno), if you’re a girl, goodluck kung may manligaw sa iyo, lalo na kung overly protective and bestfriend mo. Hindrance kumbaga.
• Sometmes, well most of the time, di nalang nila inaamin sa isat isa, until the time will come na too late na for them to admit dahil may kanya-kanya na silang partner.
There’s nothing wrong in having a bestfriend, I hope we are clear with that, wag lang sana yung bestfriend leading to other things which is sadly beyond our control, if you ended being together romantically, well congratulations! That’s the best foundation, starting off as friends... jackpot kayo! Pero sa mga unfortunate ones na hinde pa nagkaka aminan, please do consider the risks of hurting and losing. The question always end up if it worth the risk losing your friend to win love, of course the results will all be worth it, either you get to win love, or lose your friend, but at the same time, you wont have regrets asking your self “what if?”. Nobody sez it’s not going to be painful, but true happiness don’t come easy. No happiness is FREE.
Note:
My theory does not apply to the following:
• Gay or lesbo bestfriends (talagang magbestfriends lang kayo)
• Fugly bestfriend couple (utang na loob, pagnagka-tuluyan pa kayo e dadami pa mga super fhanget sa mundo, stop it!)
• And those mentally challenge…
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